thoughts on love.

November 26th, 2007


Love.
how do you describe it?
probably the most amazing feeling in the world.
...
but then .. is it even a feeling. ?
can you actually fall in love . ?
Does everyone fall in love ?
Because we all know that we cain't really fall on perpose .
do you think some people try to step into love by preparing themselves fully and convincing themself to do so..
I've already tried. It dosn't take you to a place called love at all .

I think that true love is often a spontanious thing at first, but then it's turns into a great miracle.

So you talk to someone .
It can be any random person
Some one you just met , or someone you've known since your three.
But then for the first time you see them in a different perspective, a different light.
this person is a mystery to you . you're interested about finding out who this person truely is .

Is this love? ... everyone one knows that the answer to this is NO . Unless you believe in love at first sight... in that case i'll write a note proving that there's is no such thing.


But then things get deeper. you want to spend every living minute with this person . Mostly because of the way they make you laugh by saying practicly anything , the way they make you smile or toutch you . it;s like an addiction. and when you're around them you get a "buterfly" feeling in your stomach .

Is this love? ... ummm , not quite . All these things are caused by different hormonal or nervous system reaction in your body ... Just because your heart is beeting faster when your with them dosn't mean they are in the heart already .


Now it's been longer and you feel a conection. You can tell them anything. You think that other person is PERFECT . He seems to hold all the answers of the world and you know that even if you miss one second with him , He'll be telling you about it later. you feel safe . secure .

Is this love? ... Most people would consider this love... I think it's just the height of something beautiful . the top of the mountain . But love is not about one perticular spot . It's about way more...

So , this is were it get;s tricky... You found out that this person is not Perfect. what a surprise.. ? Most people give up right here. But then some people keep going. and actually learn to love each person's imperfections . I truly think that if the imperfections of the other wont bring you down .. keep going... and then ususally in this time you'll see the greatest acts of faith and love . and also the hardest times . you'll found out that that person may not be perfect , but perfect for you .

Is this love? ... I really don't know . You tell me? I felt like this part of a relationship is the place where I got a great connection with that other person .

and then there are many other stages . like getting married, having children , etc , etc. I'm sure i'll write about that someday . But i'm not experienced enough to do so now... So I'll let all of them out...


So I guess we all have different percpective on Love . and whether or not we have "fallen" in love. I like to think I have. But dosn't love take two ? Or can It be a one sided thing.? Jesus loved us . but it's our choice to love him . So I guess it can be one sided.

Is love a feeling? or just a state of mind that you're secure with that one person ... and that it's imposible to live without that person holding your hand through the times that are hard and the times that you cain't stop smilling. that you would sacrifice so much, just to know they are happy. That you have a connection to their smell , the way their eyes sparkle when they look at you , and you know you've acheaved something different then you've ever experienced before.

the most beautiful experience ever.



All I know it that I want to find this REAL love again . the love that brings tears to your eye, only by looking at him. but i'm not going to search for it. no distractions . I'm gonna wait for that time when it's right for me . I'll pray , even more. and hopefully he'll come to me. A strong Guy who knows exacly what He wants , that loves God , who will fight for me and never give up , and make me feel important , I want to learn and grow with him. and I know it will be / has been hard at time but it will be worth it.

yes , love is the most beautiful experience ever.
whether it's with God , Family , or that special someone.

I guess that's just my point of view ...

what's yours? have you ever experienced love?
don't be afraid to prove me wrong. I'll maybe learn from it ...